Your Sussex Wedding - December 2020/Janaury 2021 (Issue 88)

COME FLY WITH ME I love the idea of a dove release. How would this work on our wedding day and is it unkind to the birds in any way? We recommend a release of five doves on your wedding day. The first pair represents your onward flight together and the extras symbolise those loved ones who’ll be watching over you, there in spirit. Released either by hand or direct from a pretty presentation cage and heart-shaped basket, both decorated in your chosen flowers, these beautiful birds rise and circle to orientate, then head back to their home in Hove, often arriving before us! Their natural homing instinct serves them well and it’s easy to see they’re well-loved, expertly cared for and receive the very best of treatment. For us, their welfare is paramount, so we’d give you a full refund in the event of adverse weather conditions where their safety becomes an issue if released. If you’re still worried, you’re welcome to arrange a visit to see our feathered friends at home before you book. Viv Lambert, www.lambertsdoves.co.uk PLAY ON We’d love some live music at our drinks reception, but don’t want anything too intrusive as guests will want to chat and catch up. What would you suggest? Once the formal part of the day is over, the world is your oyster as far as music goes! The ultimate romantic instrument, the harp provides beautiful light background music, perfect for the drinks reception. It’s not too loud and not too soft – ideal ‘music wallpaper!’ Surprisingly portable, it can be played outside if the weather is fine and is always a conversation piece. I have a vast repertoire to suit all ages, from classical to chart hits, so your guests can be entertained while they enjoy their bubbly, canapes and conversation. Margaret Wilson, www.harpmusic.co.uk AHEAD OF THE CURVE What style of wedding dress would best suit my hourglass figure? Naturally, a woman with an hourglass figure has a bust and hip that has the same or almost the same measurements, with a waist that comes in smaller – it’s to do with the proportional breakdown of numbers when taking body measurements. The goal for an hourglass shape includes choosing a gown that flatters your curves. If you’re looking to show off your bust, waist or hips, then choose a fit and flare. This captivating style hugs the body and flares off just below the hips, as well as highlighting the waist and creating that perfect figure look. Another option would be a ruched waist, which will highlight that area and be the focal point – the perfect design for a bride looking for a flattering gown. Christine Eames and Emily Smith, www.all-about-the-dress.co.uk EXPERT ADVICE 75