Your Sussex Wedding - Feb/Mar 2020 (Issue 83)

LABOUR OF LOVE We plan to get married in February around Valentine’s Day. What romantic touches can we bring to our big day to make it even more special? You may automatically think of soft, muted pastels and pretty florals, but elements can be included in lots of ways in order to add something extra special. Choosing to have your wedding near Valentine’s Day means that it will be particularly romantic and a perfect excuse to really show your partner how much you love them. What’s important is that the details you choose are authentic and completely you. Some romantic ideas include personalised cake-toppers, table names or sharing your milestones on a blackboard. I think it’s super-romantic to find a way to connect with your partner prior to the ceremony. I’m a sucker for a secret love letter or a personal token delivered to your intended before the day gets going. One of my brides commissioned a lapel pin in the shape of their beloved Labrador’s face for her new husband to wear – a great way to include a special member of the family as well as a personal symbol of love. Sally Gallis, events-by-design.co.uk katierogersphotography.com “I do” declare! What are the b nefits of using a celebrant rather than a registrar? Simple! Celebrants will work alongside you to ensure your ceremony lives up to your dreams. There are no restrictions on venue, date, location or time. You can hold your “I dos” where you chose. The venue doesn’t have to be licensed, so that special place may be a beach at sunset, a woodland glade, or even your own garden. You’ll find that your celebrant will take the time to get to know you as a couple, so that they can create a loving and meaningful ceremony totally reflective of you. There’ll be no standard script, no rules, and no wondering who’s going to turn up on the day to perform your nuptials. You also have the option to include any symbolic rituals, or perhaps you prefer to keep the more traditional elements, it’s completely up to you. What’s more, my ceremonies are dog-friendly so your best buddy doesn’t have to miss out on the fun. It’s worth noting though, that celebrant-led ceremonies aren’t legally binding, but a quick visit to the registrar to complete the legalities is all that’s necessary. Rachael Thompson, rachaelthompsoncelebrant.co.uk 90