Your Sussex Wedding - Jun/Jul 2019 (Issue 79)

Local experts offer stellar advice on creating an idyllic outdoor wedding  HOT TOPIC Can we get married in our own back garden? Patricia says: You can get married just about anywhere. You need to give notice at your local register office. Everybody has to do this regardless of ceremony plans. Once you’ve given notice, you will have a simple ceremony at the register office of your choice with two witnesses a few weeks later. You’ll sign the register and receive your marriage certificate. Before you do any of that, I recommend that you talk with a celebrant to arrange for your own personal and meaningful ceremony to take place after the legal ceremony just about anywhere you want, licensed for marriages or not. It can be your favourite pub, forest clearing, beach, hotel, your garden – anywhere. When a celebrant conducts your wedding, it will be just as you want it. Your vows can be traditional or personal; you’ll exchange rings and be presented with a certificate. Your day – your way. Patricia Bentley, celebrantofsussex.co.uk We’re planning an outdoor wedding, but there’s so much to think about! Can you give us some guidance on where to start? Lorna says: While the UK has an abundance of beautiful outdoor spaces, we also have somewhat unpredictable weather, so you’ll need to hire cover – for rain or shade. Therefore, in order to make a start on your planning, you’ll need to consider the two main priorities that will dictate everything else: guest numbers and food. How many people do you want to invite to your ceremony and reception? Any extra in the evening? Once you have decided, make some calls. Suppliers can give you accurate prices and help when you call to book a marquee, tipi or tent. Cover suppliers have so much experience. As long as you can tell them your date and size of wedding, they can advise you on what you might need including extras like electricity and loos. Ask questions. They will help! Next – food! With so many options, from hog roasts and picnics to afternoon teas and served meals, the world is your oyster. Start with thinking about what you love to eat. Go to caterers armed with that information plus your party size, and they’ll work with you to provide your dream menu within your budget.  Make those first essential decisions, and you enable experienced suppliers to help you by making the next steps clearer. Lorna Reeves, myohmyweddings.com EXPERT ADVICE 97