Your London Wedding - May/June 2020 (Issue 71)

THE MASK Our wedding date isn’t currently affected by the lockdown but nevertheless we’re wondering whether we should go ahead, postpone or scale back plans. Any advice? Edwin says: It’s likely that some form of social distancing will be in place for some time so ‘business as usual’ may not be a reality even for weddings due to take place later in the season. We’ll all need to be practical and flexible – unfortunately, the outbreak of COVID-19 has put 2020 wedding couples in a difficult situation and we’d suggest you adapt your plans accordingly and scale back your big day. As Robert Kiyosaki said, ‘inside of every problem lies an opportunity’ – the circumstances could be a blessing in disguise, allowing you to enjoy a more intimate day with your nearest and dearest. After so long apart, quality time together will be all the more precious and your suppliers and guests will be protected if you space your tables further apart. You could, of course, get creative with the theme. Switch favours to hand sanitizer and distribute elegant masquerade masks. Meet the experts: Edwin Marcow is an award-winning wedding photographer. Edwin Marcow | www.edwinmarcow.com KEEP CALM AND CARRY ON Q We’re trying to work, plan a wedding and home school our two children and it’s not going well. Help! Malminder says : Here’s a few tips to help you stay sane while in lockdown. ❤ Create a family contract: this should lay out everyone’s duties and help with sharing roles and chores. Parents can split their time, making one responsible for looking after the children while the other is working and vice versa. ❤ Draft an activity schedule: this could include meals, work and school and leisure times for both parents and children. Organise fun activities such as movie nights or cooking together – a great way to maintain a positive mindset. ❤ Keep moving: Whether it’s a fitness challenge for the whole family, a dance session or playing in the garden, make sure everyone’s staying active. ❤ Document the experience: A journal is a great way for both adults and children to understand the thoughts and emotions that this extraordinary situation brings up. Meet the experts : Malminder Gill is an award-winning hypnotherapist and life coach. Malminder Gill | www.hypnosis-in-london.com EXPERT ADVICE 95