Your Kent Wedding - January/February 2021 (Issue 94)

MEMORIES TO TREASURE We can’t decide whether we need a video of our wedding as well as photographs. What would you say are the main benefits to having a video as well? You’ve spent so long planning every minute detail of your wedding day, making sure it’s the most special day of your life and that everyone has a fantastic time. But, once it’s all over your memories might be a little blurry, mainly because you’ll have had such an amazing time it’ll all have passed in a flash. We find that nothing conveys the mood and atmosphere of the day as much as a film. A videographer will capture your personal story and the expressions of your guests as they witness the all the important moments as they unfold. They’ll intimately record your exchange of vows, the giving and receiving of rings, and the whole mood of the day. As newlyweds, you’ll be the centre of attention, chatting to friends and relatives, listening to the speeches and having lots of fun. However, in the midst of experiencing this new found celebrity status you might miss certain moments, with others fading from your recollection. A videographer will make sure you’re able to refresh your memory at any time through the wonderful medium of film. Sam Driver, www.watchourwedding.co.uk BOHO BABE I’m really keen for my dress to reflect my personality and our day’s relaxed vibe. What can you suggest? It sounds like you’ll want your shopping experience to be as relaxed as the atmosphere of your big day, so my top tip to begin with is to do some research into which boutiques stock your style of dress, make appointments with two or three and take just a couple of guests with you. There seems to be a trend toward brides bringing large groups of friends and family with them to try on dresses, which can be unproductive, overwhelming and best avoided. When you arrive for your bridal boutique appointment the consultant will start by asking you some questions about your big day. For example, based on what you’ve told me already I’d be keen to know what sort of venue you’ve booked and how you’ll be styling it. I should imagine your vision features a boho vibe complete with firepits, hay bales and fairylights. In which case, you’re sure to want to move freely on the day, without being restricted by an overwhelming dress. So, I’d be inviting you to join me in looking through my collection of stylish, relaxed, fashion-forward dresses. Something like this refreshing gown, Cosette by Watters would be absolutely ideal for you. Zoe Dowle, www.weddingdresskent.co.uk www.watt ers.com www.wat chourwedding.co.uk SENTIMENTAL JOURNEY We’d like our wedding bands to be particularly meaningful and personal. What can you suggest? Firstly, if you opt for ready-made wedding bands, why not add some engraving to the inside – possibly your wedding date, or perhaps some words that hold particular meaning to you both? Alternatively, you have the option to design your own wedding rings together. This makes them unique and you can create matching his and hers designs, or have them different yet complementary. What’s more, if you have an unusually shaped engagement ring, or one where a straight band won’t fit snuggly against it, you could have a bespoke wedding band shaped to fit like a glove. As a bespoke jeweller, we often melt down sentimental gold pieces and hand make one-off wedding rings for our couples. You can also choose for your gold to be melted and added to the inside of your bands, so that only you know it’s there. Equally, if you have existing precious stones, you can also have them incorporated into the design. Options such as these breathe new life into sentimental jewellery and make your new items even more meaningful. Lian Wilde, www.martinwildejewellers.com 88