Your Hampshire and Dorset Wedding - May/June 2020 (Issue 80)

SAYING ‘I DO’ We want our wedding ceremony to reflect us as a couple. How can we tailor the proceedings to make sure they’re meaningful and personal to us? Pat says: With celebrant-led ceremonies, there are no restrictions; you can have what you want for your celebration. This is your precious moment and needs to be treasured in a way that’s special to you. Personally, I work closely with my couples throughout the journey, get to know them, listen to their ideas, hopes and desires, then craft a ceremony that truly reflects their personalities, beliefs and dreams. It can be a traditional affair or include something like a handfasting, jumping the broom or a beautiful sand ceremony; the creative possibilities are endless. You may want to incorporate a particular theme to reflect your interests, there’s no time or word limit, you can include religious references, or not - it’s up to you. It’s your day and you can celebrate it your way in the location of your choice. Pat Morgan | Independent celebrant | www.momentsintimeceremonies.co.uk A matter of convenience We’re pl nning to celebrate our marriage with a festival-style marquee reception. The site is quite remote and although we want it to be as wild and wonderful as possible we want to provide proper toilet facilities for our guests. What would you advise for a party of 200 or more? Susie says : Ensuring that your guests are well looked after when you’re in an isolated location is really important. Worrying about toilets is the last thing you want on the day, so choosing a local firm with an excellent reputation, expertise and a professional service will give you the confidence to enjoy your special celebration hassle-free. Meet with the team ahead of the big day to make sure your VIP unit can be set up where you want it. Normally, they just need level ground so the unit is stable. Most companies will want a site visit to confirm suitability. Request that the loos are delivered and set up by the company at a time of your choosing (normally the day before), and have a test run before they leave so you know it’s all in full working order! Most units need normal household electricity, which can be supplied direct or with a generator. Just in case there’s a problem on the big day, ask for a 24-hour contact number. For a big party like yours, you’d be looking at a unit with at least three ladies loos and three for the gents, don’t scrimp though as it’s a party and the more people drink, the more they’ll need to use them! Susie James | Luxury portable toilet hire | www.aceloos.co.uk EXPERT ADVICE 53